I thought the day you “hung out” and refused to do shows was flippin’ awesome. Your by far the most real person on this site.

I’m a psych major, and as such am curious about everything. I was wondering if I could ask you some questions about how this site has affected you personally, since you were so upfront about it.

My reply:

NO problem sweetie, I have an idea. You ask the questions, send them to me via email and I answer them and post them on my site. I think ppl would like to know too. What say you?

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Ok, you mentioned the other day you get “de-sensitized”. Does that mean that masturbation is less physically pleasurable? Or does it not excite you mentally?

When I say I get de-sensitized especially after a show, that means that I’m “over-stimulated” physically. In short, my erogenous zones are feeling a little  numb. I’m  very sensitive both physically and mentally. The slightest touch or the right words can throw me into ecstasy but sometimes I overdo it and my body doesn’t respond as it should. The mental excitement is always there but sometimes my body has to catch up.

I’m sure your placed in some uncomfortable situations. How do you deal with that, and what sort of things were you uncomfortable with when you joined that don’t phase you now?

Nothing really phases me as I’m the type of girl that loves to try new things at least once just to see how it feels. I will never allow myself to be placed in and uncomfortable situation in my line of work. The moment I feel uncomfortable is the moment I stop and politely apologize and decline the request, sometimes not so politely lol.  But I do have an interesting story. I remember when I first started camming I had a member ask me to take all of his money. I’ve never heard of Financial Domination and couldn’t fathom actually making someone go broke for me.  I thought to myself, “okay, let me try this” and  failed miserably. “Are you sure you want me to take all your money?”, “I feel bad to have you go broke and starve just for me”, “Sorry, I don’t think I can do this, why don’t you donate the money instead?” I felt so guilty! That was 5 years ago. Now, I’m laughing my ass off at how worried I was for the guy and his money. After some  research on the topic, I realized that this was an actual fetish!  It really exists! Heck, if I’m not going to do this, someone else will!  You want to give me your money? You want to go broke for me? Click EXCLUSIVE!

What made you want to get into this line of work? Do you enjoy it?

Nothing and no one made me get into this line of work. I just actually fell upon it one day while on the internet (still not sure how I got there really) and decided to try it. I thought it was a scam but like I said before, I’ll try anything once. Well, lo and behold! I loved it!  The rest is history. You can follow my journey here: http://sandi-squirts.net/main/today-5-years-ago-anniversary-of-camming/

How do people react when you tell them what you do? Do you ever find it embarrassing to tell people in real life? Has it changed how you act in public (for example, after I masturbate I feel like everyone knows I just did- do you feel like that at all?)

90% of the people are taken aback and don’t really approve of what I do. They call me a dirty whore.  I’m not embarassed to tell people what I do but I don’t walk around with a banner telling everyone either. I use the “need to know basis” when considering telling people what I do. Is it really necessary? Here is a more in depth rant at how it has affected my personal life. http://sandi-squirts.net/main/rant-guys-driving-me-crazy-beginning-to-feel-something-is-wrong-with-me/ It has not changed the way I act in public and I’ve never felt ashamed that I masturbate. I do it all the time. I did it today as a matter of fact.

What do you prefer to be called professionally (cam girl, personal performer, etc.)?

Geisha.

What kind of music do you like ? How does that compare to the music you play in your room (and how does music in general help out your room/shows.)

I love all genres of music. I have eclectic tastes. What you hear in my room is the type of music I feel like listening to at that time. Music creates an atmosphere and sometimes I like to incorporate it into my shows because I “feel” the music. The other day I had a pretty long show with a member and the soft, sensual sounds coming out of my speakers combined with his words created an amazing atmosphere and connection which made my climax out of this world!

Do you enjoy your job more now or when you started? How was starting out? I imagine the learning curb was pretty steep (being that there’s not exactly a “how-to” guide or director to speak of)

Great question! I think I enjoyed my work more when I first started because everything was so new to me. Trying different things was very exciting and I still look for that “something something” that I’ve never experienced online.  I bore easily, especially when someone asks me to spread em and fuck myself until I cum. What’s that? The difference between now and then is that NOW, I choose my shows. I use to want to do every show or request asked of me but not today. I like my shows to be creative, original, intriguing, kinky or just make a connection with someone.  I have no problems kicking people out of my room if I don’t feel some sort of connection.

What types of considerations go into choosing rates for your room? How much of your rates do you get (both gold and norm) and how much go to the site? Do you sometimes resent the site taking a cut from everything you’ve earned?

Depending on my mood, if I’m feeling generous, I may lower my price but I’m worth every penny and I’m not saying that to be conceited. I’m saying this because I know what I have to offer and after 5 years of doing this and the many rave reviews I’ve received, no one has ever been disappointed. I have a variety of fans from students to businessmen.  Some can’t afford me which is understandable and I usually offer group shows for those that don’t have the budget to visit me one on one. I just recently moved from another camming site where I was able to offer group shows for my fans and this new site I’m on is working on possibly having the same kind of set up. We’ll just have to wait and see if it comes to fruition.

At the other site I was working , I was getting a 50-50 cut on my earnings. This new site, I recieve 35% of my total earnings and I do not resent the fact that this site keeps 65%. They are not just pocketing the money they make from me and all the other girls, they actually buy traffic and spend alot on advertising and they have a great support team.  I just recently quit the “other site” and the difference between these two sites: I rather get 35% of something than 50% of nothing.

I’ve heard that cam performers build up a base of regular customers. How do your interactions change with them as opposed to someone who’s new or infrequent?

I treat everyone the same, however if you are rude to me I don’t care if you have a million dollars to spend, I will ignore you. I have built up a great fan base and to be honest, I’ve known them for 5 years and when I see them in my room I give them priority. Even if they don’t spend any money, they are my friends, people whom I care about, people that have given me some of the best memories online and I hold them dear to my heart. In this business there are those that will come and go and those that will follow you wherever you go. If I see my fan’s face in the crowd, I will recognize them and acknowledge them first and people have to understand that I have a history with them. Spend 5 years with me and see what I mean.

How do you view your customers? I feel like some models really look forward to seeing them, and others look down on them and are just out to get their money.

See above post.

Do you feel your customer’s appreciate you, or do they only see you as a “sex goddess” or “disposable barbie”. The other day you said there’s more to you than just a cam girl; is that the impression many people give you?

I’m so very glad that you actually listen to me when I speak! Wow, I’m impressed! Yes, at times I do feel disposable which is probably normal in this line of business  depending on why these customers come to this site. There are a few that actually want to get to know me for me and spend time with me without any nudity whatsoever. I’ve met many like this over the years and they make me feel human. That’s why I keep coming back.

How much does it suck having to get dressed over and over for short shows? Does it annoy you sometimes when people do short shows? What’s the cutoff for a “short” show? What’s normal?

I really enjoy your questions! Yes it really “sucks” to get dressed over and over again for short shows and can get annoying but this is the business and the show must go on. The average show is 7 mins  but I’ve been with members in show for over 8 hours. There is no norm.

During just the short time I spent in your room, I realized there is a great deal of rudeness directed at you (like some people don’t care what you think or look down on you). How do you deal with that in your room, and how does it affect you personally?

Depending on my mood once again, I usually shrug it off and ignore them or fight back lol. It keeps my job interesting and I think I’ve developed a pretty thick skin when dealing with those types. If I’m in a good mood, I’ll play around with it a little, if I’m in a bad mood I turn into a BIATCH! It doesn’t personally affect me. You can’t be everything to everyone all the time. Some people will hate me, some will love me, here’s a great quote to finish off what I’m trying to say: Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
John Wooden

What do you see in your future? Do you feel like this is something you can do long-term, or do you have something else planned? Is there a stigma against people who are not exactly “spring chickens” performing on cams? Does it affect their business greatly (obviously, it’s just speculation from you unless you know someone like that ;P)

5 years and still going strong! Well, kind of  lol. I’m still enjoying what I do and can see myself doing this for ummmmmm, another 5 years? Anyone can do this from 18 year old to 70 year olds. There is a market for all ages but I’m sure it does affect business depending on what age category you are in.

I realize there’s enough questions to fill a book there, but so little is known by anyone and those are the questions (truthfully, far more than I originally realized lol) that I have. You undoubtedly already know this, but feel free to not answer anything that would hurt your business or get you in trouble with the site. The last thing I would want is you to catch shit for my curiosity. Make your responses as long as you want or as short; they are about YOU, so express anything you wish, and don’t feel rushed.

Thank you again, this is a ton and I consider a great personal favor ;P

It was a pleasure answering your questions and I’m glad you asked them. Feel free to ask me more questions in the future. I’m looking forward to them! This is a great way to have others understand me and the business. Thanks!

Okay my turn to plug my business lol.

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Here are some benefits to having sex everyday, I wonder if “masturbation” is considered sex… Hmmm….

Heard that song called Sexual Healing?

It’s not just a metaphor. Sex can actually heal. It can heal your body and mind and also prevent lots of diseases.

Some say it’s the first medicine ever known to man and it should be administered daily. Sounds too good to be true? Let’s discover the five reasons to have sex each day.

Great form of exercise
Making love is a form of physical activity. During intercourse, the physiological changes in your body are consistent with a workout. You must have noticed that the respiratory rate rises, which means you get tired. Hence, you burn calories.

If you have sex three times a week for 15 minutes you’ll burn about 7.500 calories in a year.

That’s the equivalent of jogging 120km! Heavy breathing raises the amount of oxygen in your cells, and the testosterone produced during sex keeps your bones and muscles strong.

Pain relief
The “Honey, not today, I have a headache” cannot be an excuse any more.

During sex, both male and female bodies produce endorphins, hormones that act as weak painkillers.

A study conducted by reknowned sex theraphist Gina Ogden showed that during sexual stimulation and especially during orgasm, we don’t feel pain.

If she finds another excuse, remind her that sex is good for her entire reproductive system, because it trains the PC muscle, which keeps the reproductive organs in shape.

In women, sex can also increase fertility, postpone the menopause and relieve PMS symptoms.

Prostate protection
Most of the fluid you ejaculate is secreted by the prostate gland. If you stop ejaculating, the fluid stays in the gland, which tends to swell, causing lots of problems.

Regular ejaculation will wash those fluids out and ensure the well being of your prostate until old age. Problems may also occur when you suddenly change the frequency of ejaculations.

Prevents ED
Fifty per cent of men older than 40 suffer from erectile dysfunctions and all young men fear the moment when they won’t be able to get it up any more. The best medicine against impotence is…sex.

An erection keeps the blood flowing through your penile arteries, so the tissue stays healthy. Plus, doctors compare an erection to an athletic reflex: the more you train the more capable you are to perform.

Stress relief
It’s a scientific fact: sex can be a very effective way of reducing stress levels.

During sex your body produces dopamine, a substance that fights stress hormones, endorphins, aka “happiness hormones” and oxytocin, a desire-enhancing hormone secreted by the pituitary gland.

Published Nov 27 2009 – I found here: http://www.dailychilli.com/news/1084-why-you-should-have-sex-everyday

One morning, I awakened and made myself a cappuccino and decided to turn on my cam for a morning session. Basically, seeing who’s out there in the virtual world at such an early time. I’m not usually a morning person, in fact, I’m more of a night owl, but there are times when I’m awake during the mornings. Needless to say, this particular morning was a beautiful wake-up call – an eye opener too!

I set my mug on my desk, signed on and turned my cam on. Whilst sipping my coffee and smoking my cigarettes, I hear the usual “ding dong” sounds of when guests come into my room and see the usual chatting of “good mornings, how are you’s” I’m not fully awake until I’ve had about 2-3 cups of coffee and about 7 cigarettes. My brain is still fuzzy and my fingers are slow to type.

Yawning and stretching, a member comes in….I’m thinking to myself, “Wow,it’s too early, I don’t think I’m awake enough to be doing a show yet. Let’s see how this goes” The member asks me if I can see their cam and I turn on the cam2cam feature in my room and I see a black screen. Nope. “Try again”

I refresh the cam2cam and lo and behold! I really didn’t expect this. Most members who allow me to see their cams have already whipped out their cocks and are stroking away, or sometimes, on occassions you actually see a face and they are clothed then after some playfullness and conversation, we get naked and begin to masturbate.

My eyes popped out of its socket when I witnessed a most beautiful naked girl appearing on the other end of the cam sucking on a thick fat meaty cock. I think I even shook my head for a second and widened my eyes even more! What a sight for sore eyes! This absolutely stunning natural beauty with long light brownish hair, no make-up and wet lips, on her knees was staring back at me. To me, a beautiful woman is a natural woman. The kind that doesn’t need make-up, botox or plastic surgery to enhance their beauty. That’s just my taste. What a stunner she was!

She had a beautiful smile and an expression of eagerness to please and be pleased.  ”Wow, I really didn’t expect this, you are so beautiful!” She continued sucking his cock and she sucked it in such a way, I could almost feel it myself (if I were a guy). I felt it between my legs. A tingling sensation.

I didn’t know what to do at first.  Should I be watching this? Should I join in? I moved my body closer to my screen just to watch her savouring a tasty cock.

I’m going to name them Jack and Dianne.

Jack continued feeding her his cock and would occassionally type a few words here and there. I never saw his face though. After a few minutes of my watching this couple, I began to feel a moistness between my legs. I had to reach down and touch myself only to discover that I had wet my panties and there was a collection of precum which had gathered. I asked them if I could join them because I just couldn’t sit there anymore. They said “Sure, we’d like that”

I couldn’t get my eyes of Dianne. Her beautiful body, small natural breasts and she had this “energy” about her. Her angelic face was decieving of course as I could tell she was really enjoying having me watch her. Occassionally she would fix the camera or move it closer or pan it left or right just to make sure that I wasn’t missing anything.

I had a vibrator pressed hard on my clit and continued watching. Dianne moved away from the cam and sat on what looked like a wooden chair and spread her legs, her soles planted on the chair seat. Jack stood up and continued feeding her his cock while she used a toy in her pussy. I was almost jealous at this point because she had a real human cock to play with while I only had toys. I love having a cock in my mouth while masturbating or being masturbated but here I was alone, sitting on my chair with my toy on my clit wishing I could just call out to someone to come over and feed me their cock too!

Dianne fixed the cam once more and moved to the floor, positioning herself in doggy style. She has a beautiful small ass and what looked like long legs. Her hair looked like waves on the floor and she was looking back at me. Jack held his cock as he penetrated her wet pussy, teasing it with his cock head, in and out and then all the way in. MY GOD! He sure knows what he’s doing! I could almost feel it! i love it when a guy teases my pussy like that. With one fast thrust he fucked her deep and I could see his cock glistening with her wetness. I had to take my dildo out and use it. I was trying to imitate his actions so I can feel how she was being fucked. They didn’t have sound on their end but I can tell by the expression on Dianne’s face that she was enjoying it.

Let’s be honest for a moment. As I’m writing this, I am feeling the same sensation between my legs and I am definately wet, wet wet!

Jack fucked Dianne and I was fucking myself and because I was so turned on, I almost devoured that toy. My pussy was clenching on it and milking it like it had a life of its own.  I could feel every inch and girth of the toy and it suddenly felt like a real cock at last! LOL

I came squirting multiple times, I even hit my laptop screen which I had just purchased the day before. I had to stop to wipe the screen down fast as I’ve burnt out 3 laptops this way before and I wasn’t about to ruin this one. I moved my laptop to the left of me and watched Jack cumming too. He came all over her face and breasts. I thought the show was over but it wasn’t. Jack typed, “Now it’s Dianne’s turn to cum”. She used her fingers and a toy and I continued masturbating with her, telling her over and over how beautiful she was and how she turned me on so much.  I wanted to reach into my screen to be with her, she was driving me crazy! We kept masturbating until I came again. My squirt shot hitting my stomach and my laptop again! Oh my!

I think I must have cum 5 or 6 times with them. The show lasted about an hour or so and the chair, floor, desk and myself were wet with cum and sweat. I was exhausted – so much so that after the show ended, I wiped myself down and went to bed. I literally passed out for four hours. I woke up in the afternoon with a smile on my face and wondered to myself, “Was this all a dream?” No. It was definately not a dream. Although this experience was virtual, it was very real to me.

Thanks Jack and Dianne! That was the most awesome show I’ve ever had. I’ve had shows with “couples” but I’ve never seen them on cam. You guys were my very first! I will never forget it.

I always believed what I read once in a book where it said that the brain CANNOT tell the difference between fantasy and reality.  It’s very true. When I read something or hear a fantasy, my brain doesn’t say, “hey this is not real, it’s just a fantasy”. My brain actually thinks or “feels” the fantasy and my body responds as if it is actually happening. For example: If you imagine you’re biting into a lemon right now, what will happen? Your mouth will start watering and you might even squish your face because the thought of biting into a lemon makes you “feel” the sourness. Try it!  Same thing happens to me when I read a story or imagine a fantasy in my head. It can be quite arousing.

As my ABOUT ME states above, I get highly aroused by people who can stimulate my largest sexual organ, MY BRAIN.  It’s so much more pleasurable to hear a story than to fuck myself to oblivion until I cum. In this clip, I was in a LIVE show on cam while a member told me a story.  I guess you can say that I’m very “sensitive” when touching myself while imagining a fantasy. I COULD FEEL IT like it was actually happening. After this session I received an email with a story attached. It was this movie that inspired the story – not the other way around like in my previous entries.

Here’s the full story:
Their most blissful moments were always the first. That instant realization that they were alone at last, eager and able to cast aside the cares of the day. The little rituals: pouring drinks, lighting candles, turning off the phones, turning down the bedding – aroused them more than any erotica at their disposal. Their eager eyes shone brightly in the candle light, their cheeks flushed in anticipation as they took turns helping each other disrobe; a glance here, a touch there signaling whether to leave it on or take it off. Funny how their sensual minuet always left their bodies arrayed in just the right colors and textures, while allowing easy access to their most erogenous zones.

His most splendid moments were always after they took their last gulps of Effen, and she laid back on her favorite satin pillows. This invited him to roll off his left side, up and over her right thigh (clad this night in black silk), to nestle between her legs. Sometimes, he’d kneel, or rest on his haunches. While at times, he’d balance on his knees, with the palms of his hands down on the bed, near her shoulders. But he never failed to ensure that he could see her eyes – whether through the bangs she sculpted so precisely; or, after playful debate, brushing them aside, offering the unobstructed view he craved. She savored his touch as they swam in each others’ eyes, whether he was massaging her breasts and shoulders, or alighting his lips on her cheeks, her nose, her forehead, offering affectionate pecks she gladly accepted.

Her most serene moments always began when even he tired of worshiping her face, and he would raise their foreplay to higher strata. His approach was limited only by his imagination, and by his sense of her mood: did she want to be caressed and cared for, or ravaged like she was on rails? Tonight he sensed she wanted it long, deep and hard, without further ceremony; and he was determined to oblige. He stayed riveted on her face, glowing in the candlelight, and watched her self-satisfied smirk turn to a seething snarl as the tip of his cock pierced her dripping slit and slithered deftly inside her. His eyebrows arched with satisfaction, knowing she reveled in the penetration as if she was taking him in for the first time.

Her oily, silken portal sucked him ever deeper as he pressed. They were careful to hold their heads perfectly still, his over hers, and to breathe through slightly parted lips, as their eyes scanned each others’ faces for signs of gathering rapture. They stared relentlessly, as if they were video cameras, content to channel their sensations up and through their vocal cords, cooing and murmuring in harmonic unison.

On nights like this, they played his favorite game, seeing who could make the others eyes close more. He arched his back as he thrust, raising his bulbous glans against her g-spot, guaranteed points for him on every level. She raked his back and shoulder blades with her nails, and brushed his calves with her heels while arching her lower back. Try as he might, his eye lids fluttered as he gasped, failing to resist her wiles. As his paced quickened in response, she slid her feet down to his Achilles tendons and pressed, lifting her bottom off the sheets so he could drill ever higher inside her.

The game was on full tilt, as they surrendered to passion and abandoned all limits. He began to moan as he lowered his head inches from hers. She bit her lower lip as her head flailed from side to side, the sinews in her neck taught and straining. Her cries of “Help me, dear God, help me!!” were met with relentless stabs, the base of his cock crashing against her clitoris, her cervix rubbing against his cock head, her love tunnel drizzling nectar down the outside of his shaft. He growled, “Yes, yes, take it take it like that – just like that!” while he rode her, and then pulled out so they could cry out and spray each other in streams of warm cum until they were drained and spent.

All the while, his gaze never left her face, immersed as he was in her lusty countenance. Sometimes, she wondered what he saw in her, but not on nights like this. They knew this special bond, this Elegant Ecstasy, was rare, exquisite, and never to be taken for granted. –Rico Sandinista